Safe Sex: Debunking Myths and Promoting Responsible Sexual Practices
In Africa, sex is largely a taboo topic. The mere mention of it makes some people uncomfortable. But we cannot ignore the fact that it is an integral part of our lives. Yet, with the stigma surrounding sex, misinformation is rampant. Many young people remain clueless about safe sex practices, leading to unintended pregnancies, sexually transmitted infections (STIs), and even HIV/AIDS. It’s time we break away from the myths and promote responsible sexual practices.
Myth #1: Condoms Give No Pleasure
One of the most prominent myths is that condoms take away pleasure from sex. While their use may reduce sensation slightly, they do not eliminate it altogether. In fact, condoms have come a long way from their initial design, and there are now a large variety of styles, sizes and designs to choose from.
So, next time you are shopping, pick a pack of the latest condoms that best suit you and your partner. Also, lubrication can enhance the sensation while reducing the risk of tears.
Myth #2: You Can’t Get STIs Or HIV If You Look Healthy
You cannot tell if an individual has a sexually transmitted infection by just looking at them; your judgement can be misleading. Some STIs or even HIV/AIDS can take years before appearing to show visible symptoms. It’s crucial to get tested regularly if you are sexually active, even if you feel healthy.
Myth #3: Oral And Anal Sex Don’t Spread STIs
STIs can be transferred through oral and anal sex as well, and it’s essential to use protection at all times. You don’t want to end up with gonorrhoea of the throat or worse. Condoms and dental dams are appropriate protection in these situations.
Myth #4: Birth Control Pills Provide Protection Against STIs
The pill can indeed prevent pregnancy, but it does not protect you against STIs. If you’re sexually active with multiple partners or not sure of your partner’s health status, please use a condom.
Myth #5: Only Promiscuous People Get STIs
Nobody is immune to STIs. STIs do not discriminate; they can happen to anyone sexually active, and not all STIs show symptoms at the same time. You don’t acquire STIs by promiscuity; STIs are transmitted through any sexual contact – ignorant or not.
In conclusion, learning about safe sex practices and dispelling these common myths is crucial to fighting the spread of STIs and HIV/AIDS. Educate yourselves, have frank conversations with your partner(s), and always practise safe sex. Your health and well-being depend on it.
